Saturday, January 04, 2014

PATH AHEAD

1. NON-ABSOLUTISM
Non-violence in conduct and non-absolutism in thought is the essence of development with peace. Non-absolutism demands equanimity in the examination of issues. It requires looking at things and thoughts from various aspects and to evaluate the role of a person in the context. It takes a person nearer to the truth without attachment or aversion. It entails looking at others with empathy.

What one treats as truth may be considered as untrue by others. The argument itself may lead to the distortion. Truth may be professed partially in more than one way. This may raise the question whether it is real or mirage. Is there room for paradox and resulting dilemma? The partial truth may be obscuring the whole and may confuse. This may be resolved by introducing relativity and probability in the statement. Partial truth is akin to the result of a mathematical model which may yield reliable result for the specified parameters within the ambit of assumptions.

2. VISION
Right vision may lead to quest for knowledge as a means to realize the whole truth. Sensory and extra-sensory perceptions are the means of realizing the truth. Sensory perceptions involve mind and intelligence and are common experiences. The perception is the partial truth relatively but may not be whole truth. The extra-sensory knowledge is direct without intermediaries and is not colored by externalities. In contrast the sensory knowledge and thought process is relative to the environment. Properties of an existent may be perceived in relation to situation and may be the partial truth. To resolve this, we state “relative to” with every intelligent alternative and “probably” with the statement. This may lead to clarity between the speaker and the listener regarding the understanding. The relativity and probability helps in appreciating the partial/conditional truth about the situational reality. This may lead to better communication free of doubt and persuasion.

3. EQUANIMITY
Mahaveer was born nearly 600 years before Christ in a republican system. At the age of 28 he expressed the calling to be a Shraman, the wanderer in search of the truth. He stayed with family till 30, practicing detachment and meditation. In the first phase he decided to withstand pain due to weather, hunger and ridicule. He realized that the fearlessness is the key to strength and spiritual development. The attachment to body is the source of fear. Violence, animosity and frustrations are based on body, mind and speech and their interaction with acts and omissions. Equanimity is the essence of his endeavors. He realized that the absence of attachment and aversion is the first step to equanimity. Violence, untruth, stealing, perversion and luxury are the consequence of attachment and aversion. He remained without food for 4213 days out of 4563 days and without clothes. He rose beyond pain and pleasures and ultimately developed extra-sensory perceptions.

4. REALITY
What exists around us is REAL and cannot be negated even while it is destructible and indescribable. Even the paradox is reality and understanding the same leads to realization. The real and material world is based on co-existence and cooperation. Conflict and contradiction are the function of our intelligence.
Creation-destruction, change-permanence etc are part of the ONGOING process.


5. Q & A
Q & A of Mahaveer with the disciple Gautama is revealing:

Q: What is truth?
A: Cannot be described.

Q: How to know Truth?
A: Search for yourself.

Q: How do we search?
A: Focus the mind, observe the silence and stabilize the body.

Q: How do we lead the life?
A: Speak, move and eat with restraint and care.

Q: If the path for search can be explained, why not the Truth?
A: Partial truth may be explained but not the whole, which has to be realized.
 Right knowledge is to understand the relativity between what is expressed and what has to be realized.

Q: What is the truth that can be expressed?
A: Existent is the truth and so is the substance and it’s modification even though it is impermanent. The balance and harmony between the two is the TRUTH.

6. BALANCE
Mahaveer advises balance between knowledge and conduct. He envisions the truth and prescribes refrains, restraints and austerities both internal and external. The balance between right vision, right knowledge and right conduct is liberation. He evolves the sequence of seeing internally, knowing and doing. Knowledge without vision and conduct without knowledge is the waste of effort. Vision provides the quest for knowledge and translates into conduct that liberates.

7. ATMA
Mahaveer did not envisage an all powerful creator, sustainer or destroyer. Nature, deeds and Soul are the corner-stones. The path purifies the soul and transforms into Param-Atma in bliss that is free of transmigration.
Nature was there, is here, and will be there forever. Deeds result into bondage or liberation. Soul is comparable to the Gold ore at different stages of purification. An idol in the temple is the inspiration that following the Path any human being may become the soul in bliss.

8. CO-EXISTENCE
Soul has individual identity. No soul is a part or dependent upon other. Yet each soul has the properties of Perception, knowledge, energy and bliss as a unique substance at substratum level. It gets modified and may be embodied into human being, animal/vegetation, demon or deity based on its deeds. Caste based division is unacceptable. Mahaveer accepts the interdependency in the material world and need for Live and let live. He preaches the principle of friendship towards all living being. He emphasizes the need for tolerance to co-exist with unity in diversity. This is essential for peace and harmony notwithstanding the huge differences between the living beings. 

9. INSIDE
Seed grows into tree that yields the fruit. Spirituality should understand, know and lead to right conduct. This requires Inside to outside methodology. Right vision is the first step. Believer in Non-violence cannot be cruel to workers, dependents or even to the animal world. Believer of Truth cannot cheat or render false evidence. Believer of Non-stealing cannot indulge in adulteration. Believer in Learning cannot give in to perversion. Believer in Non-attachment has to put his own limits to consumption. He has to exercise restraints in personal life. Standards of social morality change with times but the virtues are timeless. True believer bows to the virtuous for the practice of virtues and not as a ritual.

   10. BASICS
1. View the issue from various aspects in the light of the relativity and probability. Partial truth is qualified. Avoid looking from one aspect alone ignoring the varied possibilities and the context.
2. Do not ignore the unknown based merely on the known.
3. Truth may be considered relative to the fact and yet understand the other point of view. Engage into dialogue and not discussion to win your point.
4. Remember one thought may be partially true relative to another and yet it may be false in relation to another.
5. Do not take pride in proving yourself right by exhibiting your own learning and criticizing others.

11. REVOLUTION
Non-violence is the freedom from attachment and aversion. Refrain, restraint and austerity leads to equanimity. This is the non-violent revolution that is sustainable, based on essential equality.

1. Do not hurt
2. Bear no animosity
3. Friendship with all
4. Enslave not
5. Respect the freedom of others
6. War is no solution

12. NON-ACCUMULATION
Non-Attachment to worldly possessions leads to the concept of trusteeship. The material things do not go with us and therefore the accumulation of the same beyond comfort level does not make sense. Greed and pride leads to possessiveness.

1. Minimize attachment to the body and the family.
2. Observe refrain and exercise restraint in consumption.
3. Do not expand for wealth and security as there is no end to it.
4. Do not dispossess others.

13. ENDEAVOR
     1. Happiness is the function of good and the unhappiness is the result of evil deeds.
     2. There is nothing like all powerful God or Ruler.
     3. Scriptures are the work of human beings and not of the supernatural. Rituals arise       from ignorance.
     4. The Nature functions on its own through the uniting and disjunction of substances.
     5. Universe is the aggregation of motion, rest, living, non-living, time and space.
     6. A person makes progress or falls on account of own deeds..
     7. A person generates own fate but it may be modified through endeavors.

14. BEHAVIOUR

   1. Do not grab the share of others.
   2. Protect the helpless.
   3. Educate others.
   4. Help the sick.
   5. Resolve disputes peacefully.



 
15. SPIRITUALITY

         1. Optimize development based on refrain, restraint and austerity.
         2. Rituals may be poison in collusion with money and power.
         3. Worship without understanding may lead to superstitions.
         4. Person without character may get no solace from religion or its institutions.
         5. Peace of mind is achieved through Right vision, right knowledge and right conduct          in that order.

16. LIBERATION
Self-control is the key to success. Leader shows the path but the followers have to tread it. The republic of Mall and Lichwi celebrated the liberation by lighting the lamps. Here lies the contradiction amongst the followers of his path. Worshipping the goddess of wealth by his followers is the invitation to bondage. The saints do not suffer from such problem who has already given up the worldly possessions.

17. UNITY
The paradox may be resolved by Non-absolutism. The Caste system was devised to develop and preserve skills through specialization. The caste system had competitive advantage in terms of skill formation, technology transfer and kaizen so long it was by choice and based on aptitude and capability in evolutionary society. The caste system however got converted into birth-based division due to powerful families.
                All living beings possessing five senses and intelligence are clubbed into one caste i.e. human being. Any person may follow the path and get liberated. There is no class struggle and all can coexist peacefully based on personal deeds. Mahaveer postulated three instrumentalities namely body, mind and speech and three modes of doing, getting done and approval.  All acts are the combination of one to three from the group of instrumentality and the group of mode. Essence of equanimity is the control over the combinations of the modes and instrumentalities.

How can one be averse to diversity if love is the basis of the essential unity and the common fate of the living entities? The aversion cannot be the basis for any religion. The soul is an unique entity but has the common properties of perception, energy and bliss. The progress of one soul in no way harms another. It gains by cooperation and renders competition irrelevant. Perception and freedom from passion is more important than cult, sect or religion of a person. This freedom of choice is available to all human beings.

The path has to be of the internal purity and with no nexus with cult, caste, class or creed. With time the proponents of human unity became the votary of divisiveness. The religion based institutions are left with no credibility. Anger, greed, ego and deception lead to bondage. The ritual-oriented followers of the path may not be a good example to emulate. The gap between practice and principles often create a doubt about the precepts. The redeeming factor is the technological revolution overtaking the evolution. The reverse engineering of brain seems to sustain the seemingly empirical precepts of Mahaveer. Humanity has little choice but to use the precepts as the corner stone of the great edifice of SINGULARITY when the computer capability exceeds the brain power.

18. NEED
Time and Tide does not wait. Training for the tide of technology in tune with the basics has to be an ongoing concern. The Path shown by Mahaveer is a great framework of environment and ecological concerns. However the convergence between the technological revolution and the path may need sustainable training. Saints have exercised tremendous influence over the laity due to their austerity and the training of the leaders may be the first step of the voyage. 2X2 Matrix of LEARN & TRAIN may be able to cope up with the revolutionary technological change expected. Obsolescence planning and setting up system and process anew may the urgent need of the hour.
  
19. VIRTUAL
Individualistic philosophers postulate that the human being can live outside the society. Socialistic philosophers maintain that the individual and society cannot be separated. Virtual is the third dimension of the world. The principles of non-absolutism assume importance in this triangular relationship. Capacities belong to individual yet their manifestation is in social and virtual world. Individual is different from society and the virtual world. A person remains an identifiable individual even while being an important component of the society and the virtual world. A person builds up relationship for mutual advantage and expands his activities both in the society and the virtual world. A person has the emotions of love, joy, fear and frustration which he may not pass on to others. Exchange is the foundation of the social contract as far as materials are concerned. Emotions are in the domain of individual and cannot be easily transacted. Web of relationships exists for the survival and growth of humanity. Emotions cannot be easily established and therefore misconstrued as unimportant to the material existence. Individual is a reality with emotions and so is the society in relation to meaningful livelihood. The scenario may undergo change with the advent of Singularity. Handling of atomic particles may render abundance of material resources. Criticality may then shift to information and emotions.
                            Procreation and wealth are the twin elements of the current social system. Legal system attempts to bring about order in the gratification. Religion is the driver of the social system often to sustain the fiefdom. The economy prevails in the in socialism and the individual loses the freedom at the hands of the state. Socialism controls the liberty in the name of larger good that does not happen. The person at the helm of affairs cares about his continuation of power over the system and material self-interest rather than larger good. Individual suffers emotionally. This leads to credibility gap, immorality, exploitation and corruption. Democratic system replaced the dictator with hegemony of the party in the hands of the select few. Garnering of votes for the power becomes a major concern, rather than good of the people in consonance with the change in technology. The democratic system suffers from inaptitude, ineffectiveness and inaction. Power becomes an end in itself and power-brokers prevail.
                           Mahaveer does not restrict himself to any social, economic or political system. He understands the ever changing nature of the same. His building block is individual and its nature. It is substance based, with properties and ongoing modifications. Emotion prevails and is the touchstone for the individual. The criterion for the spirituality is consciousness that liberates. The role of spirituality is not the management of society with reference to procreation and wealth. His path is for the purification of everlasting soul that is in bliss. His path is good from ecological and environment concerns more by accident rather than design.
                            Violence leads to bondage for the individual and therefore may be avoided. Similarly consumption, consumerism and self-love are obstacles in the path of liberation and best be avoided. His focus is on individual and the benefit to the scarcity oriented society is accidental. The capitalism is unjust, socialism fetters, democracy paralyzes. Mahaveer has the focus on self-transformation. He emphasizes compassion without pity. Morality standards and Values change with persons, times and region but virtues are ageless.

20. PROBLEMS
Classifying the procreation, wealth and values as religion with universality result in the following problems:
1. Ritual, tradition and custom are often ignorance based and rendered irrelevant with technology.
2. Poor and weak are exploited the name of fate.
3. Fatalism induces individual lethargy.
4. War and violence is perpetuated in the name of religion by vested interests.
5. Divisiveness is encouraged.
6. Desire, doubt, disgust and delusion prevail and hinder awakening and progress.
7. Institutions control the individual for own power and the search for truth are handicapped.

Thursday, July 14, 2011

DESIRE DECISION DETERMINATION

“A DESIRE changes Nothing, A DECISION changes something but a DETERMINATION changes everything.”

An AWAKENED person has no material desire; Decide to transform SELF rather than change others; Determination arises out of right vision/knowledge/conduct

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

HELPING HAND for THE DESERVING

“You have two hands. One to help yourself, the second to help others.”


If your one hand quarrels with another you have none.
Extend the helping hand only to deserving, otherwise you have two hands engaged in destroying.

WANTON ROUTE to ENJOYMENT

“There are two things to Aim in Life. First to get what you want & Second to Enjoy What You get.”

Satisfying want leads to more wants and is never ending process.

Bliss occurs when it is independent of person and thing and often virtue-oriented.



TRUTH vs SATYA

“Speak sweetly so that if you have to eat your own words back they do not taste bitter"

Truth is often biter but SATYA is non-hurting.
Sweet may cause diabetes but Non-hurting does not damage when flung back at you

ARGUE/ADJUST?

“Adjustment with right people is always better than argument with wrong people.”

It is not a question of right/wrong people when it comes to argument/adjustment.

Argue only with logical/rationale people.

Adjust with exploiters, if you cannot avoid them.

Monday, July 11, 2011

L:ALPHA SOUP for PBO


L: ALPHA SOUP for PROSPECTIVE BUSINESS OWNER

Research and think of the relevance of each word



  1. LAB
  2. LABEL
  3. LABOR
  4. LACK
  5. LACUNA
  6. LADDER
  7. LAG
  8. LAMENT
  9. LANDING
  10. LASTING
  11. LAUGH
  12. LAUNCH
  13. LAVISH
  14. LAW
  15. LAY
  16. LIABILITY
  17. LIASE
  18. LIBERAL
  19. LIBERTY
  20. LIBIDO
  21. LICENSE
  22. LIE
  23. LIFE
  24. LIFT
  25. LIGHT
  26. LIKE
  27. LIMB
  28. LINE
  29. LINK
  30. LIP
  31. LISTEN
  32. LIVING
  33. LOAN
  34. LOATHE
  35. LOCAL
  36. LOCK
  37. LOCUS
  38. LOG
  39. LOGIC
  40. LONGING
  41. LOOK
  42. LOOP-HOLE
  43. LOOSE
  44. LOSS
  45. LOT
  46. LOT
  47. LOTUS
  48. LOVE
  49. LOW
  50. LOYAL
  51. LUBRICATE
  52. LUCK
  53. LUCRATIVE
  54. LUDICROUS
  55. LUKEWARM
  56. LULL
  57. LUMINARY
  58. LUMP
  59. LUNCH
  60. LURCH
  61. LURK
  62. LURK
  63. LUST
  64. LUXURY
  65. LEAD
  66. LEAP
  67. LEARN
  68. LEASE
  69. LEISURE
  70. LEND
  71. LESION
  72. LESS
  73. LESSON
  74. LET
  75. LEVERAGE
  76. LEVELER
  77. LETTER
  78. LEVY

W: SOUP for PBO


ALPHA SOUP for PROSPECTIVE BUSINESS OWNERS
Research and think the relevance of each word
  1. WALK
  2. WALLET
  3. WANT
  4. WARE
  5. WARRANT
  6. WASTE
  7. WATCH
  8. WAVE
  9. WAY
  10. WEAKNESS
  11. WEAR
  12. WEB
  13. WEEK
  14. WEIRD
  15. WELFARE
  16. WELLNESS
  17. WEST
  18. WISDOM
  19. WISH
  20. WIT
  21. WITH
  22. WIN
  23. WIELD
  24. WILLING
  25. WIND
  26. WINDOW
  27. WITHER
  28. WINK
  29. WONDER
  30. WORD
  31. WORK
  32. WORLD
  33. WORRY
  34. WORTH
  35. WOULD
  36. WOW
  37. WOUND
  38. WRITE
  39. WRONG
  40. WHAT
  41. WHEEL
  42. WHEN
  43. WHETHER
  44. WHICH
  45. WHILE
  46. WHIM
  47. WHIP
  48. WHISTLE
  49. WHO
  50. WHOLE
  51. WHERE
  52. WHY



Thursday, July 07, 2011

"“A rich person is not someone who has more, but someone who desires less.”"

To shed desire is the first sign of awakening that makes you rich
"“When you have money in hand, only you forget who you are, but when you do not have any money in hand the whole world forgets who you are.”"

Perhaps this applies better to Power, though It may not be my own experience.

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

"“It is surprising that we want everything permanent for a temporary life….”"

Soul is permanent and no harm in wanting for the soul.

Everything else is temporary and wanting for the same is of no avail.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

"“The greatest mistake of most of human beings, we listen HALF, Understand QUARTER, Think ZERO, React DOUBLE and REMBER FOREVER.”"

Listen and look inwards.

Know Self and understand.

Do avoiding Greed, Anger, Manipulation and Ego i.e GAME

Beware of subsidiary sentiments viz. making fun, pleasure, displeasure, sorrow, fear, disgust, sexual craving for male, female and hermephrodite.

soul is the SUN of the human solar system

Passions i.e GAMEs are the Planets and

Sentiments are the satellites.
"“Most of the problems will be resolved if we write them on paper instead carrying in mind.”"

Seeking Opportunity is more important than problem-solving.
"“Search for a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.”"

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and may misguide.

Aim for purity rather than Punya but avoiding the unwholesome deed in any case
"“Journey of life starts with a full bag of luck and an empty bag of experience, The goal is to fill that bag of experience before the bag of luck gets empty.”"

20 years of experience is sometimes 1 year experience repeated 20 times.

Do not waste the precious human life in reinventing the wheel.
"“The Battle of Life is not ever won by one who is most talented…But by the one who does not lose his grip till the Last Breath…”"

Battle may be won but war is lost.

Talent is not the same thing as Idealism

Pay homage to Qualities and not to the cult
"“LIFE is BEST for those who are enjoying it, DIFFICULT for those who are analyzing it and WORST for those who are always CRITICISING…..”"

Criticism, condemnation, complaining and crib are the pasttimes of the ruined lives.
"“A DESIRE changes Nothing, A DECISION changes something but a DETERMINATION changes everything.”"

Awakening has 3 components:

Attitude

1 Non-absolutism
2 non-superstition
3 no doubt in the teachings
4 No delusion with ref. to God, teacher and doctorine
5 No Ignorance about body and soul relationship

Behavior:

1 Equanimity
2 Inner turmoil leading to disenchantment with material things
3 Detachment
4 Compassion sans pity
5 Educated faith in the 9 elements of reality

Characterstics:

1 Inspire and not put to shame the defaulter
2 Promoting stability when others are shaken
3 Illuminating and doing good for others
4 Disinterested affection and service of person striving for the Ideal

Desist:

1 Doubt
2 Desire
3 Disgust
4 Delusion
"“It is not important to go to heaven after we leave, but it is important to create heaven before we leave this world.”"

Liberation is more important than heaven.
"“Well done is better than well said.”"
Doing has to backed by looking inward and Knowing self.
"'Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have.'"

Happiness that depends upon persons and things is illussory.

Bliss is unrelated to possessions.
"“Jab five seconds ki muskaan se photo acchi aa sakti hai, to hamesha muskarane se zindagi acchi kyon nahi ho sakti hai.”"

Smile over your own foolishness and you will be ever smiling.
"“Relations are like a Book. It takes few seconds to Burn, but it takes years to write. So preserve your relations very carefully and never let them end.”"

But always give up the obsolete.
"“LOVE and CARE are very expensive Gifts. So do not expect them from everyone because everyone is not too rich.”"

Yet you can shower them on deserving.
"“Success and excuses do not talk to each other, so if you give excuses forget about success and if you want success forget about excuses.”"

Success is with relation to what you set out to do.

Analysis may be useful bur excuse corrodes.
"“Do not get frustrated doing continuous unresulted efforts, sometime the last key of the bunch opens the lock.”"

Rather feel happy about deeds not rewarded, as it get deposited in your Punya a/c and may enable you to tide over emergencies.
"“Whatever you do, you are creating your own future.”"

There are:

1 Sanchit Karma: from times immemorial
2 Prarabdh: determinining your current GATI and uncontrollables
3 Kriyaman Karma: In your control to decide the future
"“Comparison is the best way to judge our progress… but not with others. Compare your yesterday with your today”."

Cooperate with your PRAKATI and PRAVARTI
"“Mirror is your best friend because when you cry it never laughs”."

Your CHIT is the mirror to reflect to your soul, the seer
"“Life is like playing chess with god. After our every move, he makes the next move. Our moves are called choices and his moves are called challenges."

The curren life is just a comma in a sentence, which is the part of a paragraph, which in turn is an essay.

We are the author of this essay through our deeds.
"“God always likes to know again and again what you want…It is not that he forgets your needs, But he loves to feel the sweetness of your prayes.”"

It is your own A/c of Punya that you draw from, when the prayer is met with.

There are no free Lunches
"“Expectation is the only thing which kills the relationship.”"

Maybe the unexpected as well.

Appreciate the trasitory nature of relationship.
"“Speak only when you feel your words are better than the silence……….”"

People may think , I am a fool, if Ido not speak. I may confirm it, If I open it.

Silence saves energy. Chatter creates bondages
"“Knowing others is intelligence, knowing yourself is true wisdom, mastering others is strength, mastering yourself is true power.”"

To accept what cannot be changed is intelligence.

To be able to transform self is Attitude

To know the difference beween Attitude and Intelligence is the wisdom
"“Person never forgets two faces….First who helps him in critical situation and second who left him in critical situation.”"

Promote stability by efforts to make others secure in convictions when they are shaken, by consoling or material aid at a time of calamity, logical persuation and even criticism of tempting doctorines.

Faults of others need not be endorsed but order has to be maintained and self-imrovements encouraged by protecting from shame.
"“Adjustment and Compromise are crucial in relationships. Adjust when someone wants to be with you and compromise when you want to be with someone.”"

Both are sub-optimal.

Stick to the Core:

Non-hurting

Truth that does not harm

Non-stealing

Learning/Teaching

Limiting possessions,
restricting activities/enjoyments,
refraining from unwholesome

Attaining equanimity
Letgo
Fasting
Offering resources to deserving with humility
"“The aim of the life is not to secure pleasure, but to avoid pain.”"

Pleasure and pain are the two sides of the same coin.

The aim of HUMAN life is to shed the bondages and achieve LIBERATION.

Pain arises out of

Ignorance

Pride in the achievements

Craving

Aversion

Fear of losing

These are obstacles to Liberation.
"“Getting angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others….”"

Getting angry is self punishment only if it is arising out of hurt to your material interest.

If it is motivated by Anukampa, it is wholesome
"“People may not believe what you say. They will always believe what you have done. So, prove your excellence in action better than in words”."

Look inwards

Understand

Then do.

Do what is IDEAL and not for proving to self or others
"“A mountain is not higher than your confidence. Because it will be under your feet, if you reach the top”."

Confidence is the educated faith in the reality of the nine building blocks as follows:

Sentient

Insentient

Karmic Influx

Stoppage of Karmic Influx

Unwholesome deeds

Wholesome deeds

Bondage

Disassociation of bound Karma

Liberation
"“No relationship is lifelong, but each relation has its lifelong memories. Life is good when relation lives with it but it becomes best when we live for relation.”"

ANUKAMPA is the only relation worth living the life.
"“Do not expect the circumstances to be always in your favor. Because this world has not been created for you alone”."

The world has been created for BHOG and APVARGA for all.

It is upto you to avail the opportunity offered by the circumstances ARISING
"'You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself'."

God is someone or something close to IDEAL in a category/class.
He may serve as a role model for you.

He cannot give or take anything from you.

You emerge as GOD as you reach the IDEAL in your class/category.
"“Always respect, honor & pray for those who helped you in your bad time. Also be thankful to bad time for showing you those who are yours”."

RESPECT is the awareness of the basic worth of all beings.
Compassion felt by non-jain is tinged with pity or attachment to its objects.

Anukampa=Compassion-pity/attachment.

Anukampa fills the Jain with an unselfish desire to help other souls towards freedom from bondage.

Ekatva means that your soul only truly yours and not even your own body. Avoid attachment even to your own body and none is yours.

Quid pro quo is the source of bondage and trouble
"“The healthiest response to life is joyful living”."

Bliss has to be experienced.

Pursuit of IDEAL rather than Excellence is the path to Bliss.

Fake it to begin with and gradually you will experience the real.
"“Never regret having chosen or having met wrong people in your life because no one can teach you right lessons better than wrong people……”"

Never regret anything in any case.

Avoid Villains even if you may learn from them. They have imprints that may be damaging.

Seek company of the virtuos even if they fake it.
"“Those who are most slow in making a promise, are the most faithful in fulfilling it.”"

Keeping a promise is INTEGRITY.

Saying the right pleasantly is SATYA which you practice.

SATYA is different from SACH. SACH is truth may be unpleasant or hurting.

You may not incur sin by keeping mum that is not for your material self-interest.
"“Never try to hide your secrets from a person who can read your eyes…, because the one who read your eyes is always a expert in reading your Mind……….”"

Eyes work in present. Close the eyes and the scene disappears. Mind is the coordinator of all senses and ever present in the past and future.
Reading the eyes is a component of mind reading.

Avoid hiding in any case.
"“Success also hurts when you do not have a loved one to wish you………, Failure also looks beautiful, when you have a loved one to support you….”"

Do not confuse Success with happiness. Success is the science of failures. Happiness is the science of Love and work that flows.
"“Difficulties are viewed differently by people. For some people, these are speed breakers & for others these are opportunities to jump.”"

Challenge is to transform difficulties into Opportunities.
"“Expectation is the only thing which kills the relationship.”"

It is easy to kill but difficult to sustain